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Hello, Im here with a warning to all the ladies in the NYC area. It's doubtful that OK Cupid will remove those who harass others, so forums like this are necessary for predators lurking around. DO NOT engage with OKCupid profile Eddie-Gora. ...
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#929332

eddie-gora fed my pet lobster to an alligator! Beware!

He said it was the will of Zeus! This is classic traitorous and usumptious behaviors, and I'm not going to take it!

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#445624 Review #445624 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
New York, New York
Product
Okcupid Profile

Got cyber bullied but okcupid deleted my account instead

I had the okcupid account for a while and always got bullying message from crazy people. So yesterday when I got another bullying message from a stranger who got infuriated after he read my profile and noticed that he might not be someone that I'm looking for, I decided to take a screenshot of what he wrote me and I posted what he wrote on my profile picture and I reported that to okcupid. But instead okcupid tried to protect me as a victim, they right away deleted my account. I wrote them at least three emails with this incident and also attached the screenshot of this crazy stranger's nasty message but they did not reply at all and just ignored me. Okcupid is letting those bullies barking like rabid dogs on other innocent users and let them run free while blocking the innocent ones. If anyone who want to sue this website, I'll be joining!
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#743748

I just had the same thing happen. A guy from Turkey, who supposedly (he could, he could not, how would I know) lives in NYC, and goes by the name northofmadisonsq which I take it means he lives north of madison square garden, contacts me. He then asks me if I live near the Wayne Van Riper Hopper Museum.

There are a bunch of houses that date back to the 1700s and 1800s that have been preserved and designated as historical. Some have been moved and put into new places. They call them museums. I am sure there are times you can walk through them and see the furniture and other things from that period.

Well, that is not even in my town it is about 10 minutes away. I have passed it many times but it has nothing on it that when you drive past it you can tell what it is called. So I told this guy I didn't know what he was talking about.

The Turkish guy from NY now tells me that I am a scammer. He tells me that he is going to have my account deleted. I told him to go ahead that he has to have something of substance in order to get someone else deleted. Well obviously he doesn't need anything of substance and obviously he has done this to other people before because he was very confident in his actions. So this guy from Turkey, who on the phone doesn't even sound like a man, was able to get me deleted from okcupid for not knowing a location that he found on Google maps.

I had filled out the form many times to okcupid. They do not respond to me. If they wanted, I could even take a picture of the place to show it has know markings of its name. All because of what this very *** man does....and I am using the term man loosely, I am deleted. If okcupid had a backbone they would have some way to talk to them so they can discuss this. They should defend their actions. They have actually posted that they make mistakes but that is an extremely low percentage of the time. I think they are wrong a lot more times than they think they are wrong. If they were so right, the hiding would not be necessary.

I will not let this go. They will not get away with this. I don't know if the Better Business Bureau would get involved because they are a free service, but I will continue to look for ways to right the wrongs. I hope you do too!

#717300

well I had a *** stalk me so I had to delete that account and I had to delete other online dating accounts on other sites too.he stalked since I didn't reply to him.

#709118

Coycoy,

That is so totally bass-ackwards of OKCupid!!

Thank you for taking the time to share what happened with you.

#709117

get a life

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#443983 Review #443983 is a subjective opinion of poster.
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Okcupid Account

They wanted to break away free dating site streotype but failed

i was on the site for pretty long time pretty close to when it started . and it was great then the guys were worth talking to. and you had a clue who would to talk to you before you sent a message because there was a little text on every profile. that said if there were online or not and whether they answered their message or not from always to selective. about a year ago they decide to make the site have a premium membership which seem almost pointless the only bonus i saw was the person who wanted to be *** and look at someone picture without being caught even then its not a big deal its already available for free . about month after they did this it seem a bunch perverts came out of nowhere . basically even if you complained to the site they didn't do anything . i would get outright booty call messages from strangers and i would report their actions and they weren't kicked out or banned i even got racist comments as well . the final straw was a message i got last month where the man basically was trying to pay me to *** with him!! i'm not a *** for christ sake. i told the site no action was taken. i'm done with online dating and okcupid is the reason.
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#434476 Review #434476 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Service
Okcupid Online Dating
I have been an okcupid member for a little over a month I recently mysteriously can't log into my account and of course there is no phone number an when I write numerous times to the customer service , NO ONE responds! What a ham n egg site ...I have done nothing...
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#674272

The same thing happenf to me. Before i completed my profile, ALICE from OkCupid was always sending me messages that i should upload my picture, as soon as i did, i c'd not log into my account again! I feel i was Scammed by Okcupid, they stole my nice profile and pictures!

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#393734 Review #393734 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Fort Lauderdale, Florida

Mccoyhen123 made me to belive he loved me,wanted to marry,then scammed me for $4000! ;(

september 1,2002 i met Henry McCoy,username "mccoyhen123" we began talking by sept 3rd on the phone.this man proclaimed his love for me & asked me to delete my okc account and that he would too, i did. our relationship grew,or so i thought.he said that he was on the *** of finishing a $400,0000.00 computer programming project, and was having trouble with $ he needed to help his colleague that was helping him "representing him" in the republic of Georgia. like an *** i sent money on 5 different occasions by wesrern union to a "Ruffia Bolawinsia",in the republic of Georgia. i could go on but i am in great heartache & distress! the bottom line is this man talked to me on phone night & day flooding me with loving words, poems,ect... even went as far as asking me to marry him. i fell head over heels with someone i never met but was sent many pitures & loving emails, & we constantly talked on the phone. there was always some excuse why i could not meet him in person. last friday he said a colleague had brought the final document from the republic of georgia to north Carolina here in the US, and that the man "Juan Temell" had paid $400 for the republic of Georgia stamp for it to leave the country,and that if we could scrape up $400 together he would send the additional document needed to my address, he would drive down from denton tx and his colleague Ruffia from tyler and they would take care of the final transaction here in houston, then we would drive to Austin see my Father who was ill with cancer, then on to ohio to see his Grandmother. well he said he could only scrape up $150 and needed $275 & the document would be delivered overnight fed ex. well by yesterday i finally snapped something just wasnt right and that the packaged should have been here. i get suspicios,go on okc to investigate and sure enough he is still on here but has made changes to his profile. including changed his location. i confronted him 2 days ago and he cursed me for not trusting him and said someone had hacked into his old account and opened it back up... Bull ***! and now has dissapeared. please get this scammmer this *** artist off of okc before he begiles some other poor woman ,he is using this site to conn women out of money. i came on here hoping to find true love and i thought i did, instead i was scammed for $4000 and left broken hearted! please do something about this evil person. Sincerely, Tracey Pope "stormygirl007"
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#1339218

I know this is a old post, but I wanted to comment even if you do not see this. YOU ARE NOT DUMB!!!!

He "love bombed " you like they do in cults to try to get you to give him your money. That's what these *** artist do. They tell us whatever we want to hear and think we are desperate enough to believe it. This happens to anyone any age both genders.

It has nothing to do with being dumb, it has something to do with being deceived. I personally have never given money, but I have had these jerks try to *** me for yrs off and on. A scammer can come in many forms in religion, dating, jobs, housing etc. It can happen to people that are intellectuals.

Anyone can be scammed. I support u and pray for u. I know how you feel. I am soooo sorry this happened to u.

I pray that these scammers get caught asap!!!. People in this world are so mean and insensitive if they have never been scammed by a sociopath or narcissist or psychopath or any other predator they do not get it. I get it. My family is abusive so I come from having parents that treated me like ***.

I know how hard it is to resist someone telling you are beautiful and all the sweetest compliments however fake they are can feel. Everyone wants to be loved and that's what these *** artist count on is that as humans God created us to want and give and need love and so they play on our deepest desires to the point we are willing to give them whatever they want :money or sex etc. Its so disgusting.

I have no words to change your situation, but I am praying for u that God will do something to vindicate your broken heart and situation no matter how many yrs have gone by. God bless u!!!

#576028

Don't be pissed at OKCupid you are the domb one OMG... Seriously!! What a sucker you are.....

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#363572 Review #363572 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Houston, Texas
Product
Okcupid Account
Loss
$4000

Okcupid - lousy customer service

Several weeks ago I moved from one European country to another. I wanted to change my okcupid profile to reflect that move, but couldn't find how to do so. I therefore filled in the contact-us form. About 10 days later, having received no response, I tried again. Still no repsonse. I tried a third time. No response. I the found a user profile belonging to one of the company's employees. I sent her a message. No response. I tried the three email addresses I found on the site (press, hr, & biz). No response. I tried again a few days later. No response. This has been going on for nearly two months now. In the meantime, I have found how to change my country, but despite sending 10 messages via different means, I have not received a single response!!!
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#257931 Review #257931 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Manchester, England
Loss
$100

Okcupid never ends

Okcupid never ends
Okcupid never ends
Okcupid never ends
STILL ONGOING CYBERSTALKING AND HARASSMENT FROM OKCUPID…HOW IS IT THAT THIS PEST IS FINDING ME ON THE INTERNET???…HACKING???…POSSIBILITY THAT ALL THESE PROFILES ARE FAKE AND RESTS IN THE HANDS OF ONE DERANGED CYBERSTALKER…AS YOU CAN SEE THEY REFUSE TO LET IT GO BY STILL SPEAKING ABOUT ME AND POSTING THINGS ABOUT ME ON THE NET THAT ARE UNTRUE, SLANDEROUS, AND DEFAMING…THEREFORE MAKING THEM OBSESSED ABOUT ME…TYPICAL BEHAVIOR OF A CYBERSTALKER/HACKER/PREDATOR…SINCE THIS PREDATOR KEEPS SEARCHING AND FINDING ME ON THE NET I HAD TO CHANGE MY IDENTITY AND MAKE OTHER ANNONYMOUS ACCOUNTS AND CHANGE THE SETTINGS ON MY PREVIOUS ACCOUNTS SO THEY CAN LEAVE ME ALONE BECAUSE I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM, BUT AS YOU CAN SEE THEY STILL FAIL TO DISMISS THE ISSUE AND LEAVE ME ALONE…A TYPICAL CYBERSTALKER LIKES TO TWIST THINGS AROUND AND MAKE YOU THE STALKER OR THE LOON BY MANIPULATING YOUR WORDS OR THE TRUTH TO MAKE THEM THE VICTIM AND MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY…ONCE AGAIN THIS IS TYPICAL CYBERSTALKING BEHAVIOR…THEY EVEN TOOK MY YOUTUBE VIDEO AND COMBINED IT WITH A COOLIO SONG POSSIBLY INSINUATING I AM A TROUBLED CHILD WHEN IN REALITY THE PERSON DOING ALL THESE ACTIONS AGAINST ME IS SUPER DILUDED AND TROUBLED…FURTHERMORE WE HAVE TO SIMILAR STATEMENTS MADE FROM TWO SEPARATE PROFILES POSSIBLY PROVING THAT IT IS ONE STALKER WITH MANY PROFILES TALKING TO THEMSELVES ALL DAY LONG WITH MULTIPLE PERSONALITIES A TRUE CHAMELEON AND LOOKING FOR VICTIMS TO ABUSE AND PROJECT THEIR ISSUES ON…THE QUESTION HERE IS WHY DOESN'T THIS UNFIT PERSON LEAVE ME ALONE IT'S BECAUSE THEY ARE A CYBERSTALKER THAT IS OBSESSED WITH ME AND I AM POSTING THIS TO MAKE EVERYONE AWARE OF WHAT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU TOO…THIS DOESN'T MAKE ME THE LOON THIS MAKES ME THE VICIMIZED HUMANITARIAN HERE…AND LIKE I SAID A TYPICAL CYBERSTALKER ENJOYS VICTIMIZING HIS VICTIMS OVER AND OVER PLUS THERE ARE OTHER VICTIMS THAT HAVE COMPLAINED ABOUT THIS ISSUE ON THE SITE…CLEARLY THIS IS AN EXISTING ISSUE…SO WHY DOES OKCUPID ALLOW THIS AGAIN???…POSSIBLY TO KEEP THE SITE FUNCTIONING TO ENTICE PEOPLE TO GO ON IT AND GET TRAPPED…BUT HOW LONG IS THIS GOING TO ON FOR???…PEOPLE WON'T STAND FOR THIS MUCH LONGER AND YOU HAVE TO EXPECT SOMEONE TO VOICE THIS JUST LIKE I AM…WHAT KIND OF MARKETING SKILLS ARE THESE, WHEN ONE HAS SUCH PRISTINE EDUCATIONAL BACKROUND???…THEY CAUSED THIS PROBLEM AND WE WOULDN'T BE HERE IF THEY NEVER STARTED IT…THEY ALSO TRY TO ACCUSE MATCH.COM FOR THIS EVENT BUT I HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH MATCH.COM…SO CAN WE SAY PARANOIA SETS IN ON THEIR PART HERE??? POSSIBLY….THEY ALSO CLAIM MY PHOTO AND I ARE FAKE…THIS DOES NOT SOUND LIKE A NORMAL CHARACTER…MY PHOTO AND YOUTUBE VIDEO ARE REAL…IF HE IS FAKE LIKE HE STATES THEN WHY BE ON A DATING SITE WHERE REAL PEOPLE JUST MIGHT BE SEARCHING FOR AN ACTUAL HUMAN BEING TO DATE…PLUS IF PEOPLE ARE LOOKING FOR SERIOUS MATES, NOBODY WANTS TO SPEAK TO A FAKE PROFILE BECAUSE IT'S IS MISLEADING AND MESSES WITH ONES EMOTIONS AND MIND… IF THE DATING SITE IS DOING BAD AND THEY HAVE TO RESORT TO SUCH PETTY TACTICS THEN IT MIGHT BE TIME TO SHUT THE SITE DOWN AND FACE REALITY…IF THE SITE IS DOING GREAT THEN HATS OFF BUT THIS PROBLEM NEEDS TO END…EVERYTIME I MAKE A COMPLAINT THIS UNFORTUNATLEY FEEDS INTO THE CYBERSTALKERS OBSESSION BECAUSE THEY FIND ME AND THEY LOOK TO KEEP THE CONVO CONTINUING OR IN THEIR CONFUSED WORLD THE RELATIONSHIP GOING ON THE INTERNET BY SEEKING MY ATTENTION THAT THEY CRAVE…TYPICAL CYBERSTALKING BEHAVIOR…THEY CONFUSE REALITY WITH CYBER…IT IS ALSO A CRIME…BUT HOW LONG DO THEY PLAN ON CYBERSTALKING ME FOR??? GET OVER THE OBSESSION…AND GET THIS PARASITE THE CLINICAL PSYCHIATRIC HELP THAT THEY DESPERATLY NEED…
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#1088833

your caps lock broken?

#1035494

This person would of only found you because your pictures were elsewhere (linked to other accounts/places online) or your username was. So it is more down to you leaving yourself open to the harassment.

It actually is not Okcupids fault at all that this happened.

The person probably reverse image searched your pictures and also searched your name. It's not hard

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#222639 Review #222639 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Staten Island, New York
Product
Okcupid Profile
Loss
$40

Continuing cyberstalking from okcupid.com

as you all know after joing the dating website www.okcupid.com i have been having some ongoing issues and i just want to make everyone aware some more of what you can go through...users from the dating website okcupid are still stalking me and now took my youtube video after i disabled embedded on there and are using it...just beware of these unstable stalkers on the net that won't leave me alone...and keep following me...you can be a victim of this too...i just want to make people aware of what can happen to you after you join www.okcupid.com...from that site as you all know by now the predator(s) is still stalking me...but likes to twist things to make me the blame and feel guilt...typical behavior of a stalker that is seriously looking for a cry for help and should leave me alone but doesn't...i mean why keep stalking me if you this person claims to be so normal...why still keep my photo when you deleted other photos from your journal because he is stalking me in particular...becareful of this cyberstalker you can be apart of this unstable persons abuse and mind games...not to mention the stalker follows me on my blogger where he is not welcome and on my youtube where he is not welcome on there either but hey i tried to change the settings because of this stalker and he still took my youtube on video as you can see in the link below...clearly this stalker has serious issues...i only post to make people aware of what can happen to them and that nobody takes care of it...be safe! XO-josie http://youtubedoubler.com/?video1=sRYM4zSVQXI&start1=0&video2=-SPVU_M4wtY&start2=0&authorName=Crazy+Monsta
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#249933

I still can't believe the stalker is using your video now too. Your photo wasn't enough for him to violate.

He has mad issues. I tried reporting him, but I think okcupid wants him up on the site for some odd reason.

:x :?

To Come to think of it, okcupid is ***

#249926

yeah josie, these people are not normal for stalking you like this. I am so sorry I told you to go on okcupid.

I took my profile down. I don't want to be stalked or violated on there. What a creeper this stalker is!

Ewwww! :sigh :x

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#222153 Review #222153 is a subjective opinion of poster.
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Staten Island, New York

Cyber stalking and hackers on okcupid

To all that use www.okcupid.com, let this be known that there are some hackers and cyber stalking people on that site...stalking is a crime...okcupid moderators do not remove these stalkers, therefore, letting these hackers take over the site...how would you feel if you were violated in more than one way and could not stop it or get help for it...stalkers and hackers enjoy abusing their prey...they appear as normal people to throw serious user's off guard...please becareful! this is no joke and should not continue...there have been many people that complained about this problem...please read more about this at this blogger... http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/ the stalkers and hackers take your photo and mess with it...they also control and report your profile from the dating website, ultimatley giving absolutley no access at all to the site, when you are the victim...the stalker also sexually harasses you...places nude content on their journals, search for more victims to defame, slander, and abuse...it's a never ending vicious cycle...this can all rest in the hands of either one person or people...this stalker(s) should be banned from any internet service because they abuse it...they should also be jailed and fined...you can be victim of this and not know it...but we are here to help expose such criminals... http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/beware-of-hackers-and-stalkers-on.html BEWARE OF THESE CYBER STALKERS/HACKERS http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn http://www.okcupid.com/profile/clerval_redux http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada
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#221603 Review #221603 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Staten Island, New York
Product
Okcupid Profile

Too many fake profiles on okcupid and It's misleading!

There are too many fake profiles messing with actual people that want to date on okcupid. I am tired of speaking to fake people!!! This website needs a major cleaning and wipe out of all the fake profiles. It is misleading. If it continues to swarm with fake people, there is no sense in keeping this website functioning. Who are we supposed to date, if we are not talking to a genuine person on okcupid? Isn't the point of this dating site to find an actual person or friend to date? How can I, with all these misleading profiles!!! Stay away from WWW.Okcupid.com!!!
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#857098

Aug 2014. I have to agree with this posting about fake profiles.

I also found I was deleted for no good reason. I will not bother with this site again.

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#221502 Review #221502 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Staten Island, New York

Okcriminals aka okcupid

It has come to my attention that okcupid should be okcriminals, because every-time I speak to someone, I think I am speaking to a criminal. So I try to report these criminals, but they still are up to no good. What is a bro supposed to do on a dating website infested with criminals?! This didn't happen just one time! I am actually creeped out, and considering going onto another dating website, but now I am too afraid. If I would have known it was infested with criminals, I would have stayed at the bar. I thought I was over reacting, so I made another account, but I am still getting these criminals! Is this possible that I can't meet a true friend without worrying if it's a criminal?! It's one lie after another, and I can't tolerate this anymore. At this rate, I am going to have to stay home and read a book! This dating site made me sad and confused. Don't go on this site! It is run by criminals!!! okcupid is now okcriminals
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#221465 Review #221465 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Staten Island, New York
Product
Okcupid Account
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada Beware of Driada on okcupid.com. yet another user and abuser on the site. this could be the worst one of all. this is one frightening person to have on the loose. to show these kind of photos on a dating site, this is not a ***...
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#250962

If you guys that keep leaving all these nasty comments on all Josie's posts all over the internet, then why don't you call the cops on her, if she is so mental?

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#221370 Review #221370 is a subjective opinion of poster.
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Staten Island, New York
Loss
$40
DAAVVEE OKCUPID.COM ZOOMINGIN OKCUPID.COM, racisim, hackers, sexual harrasement, verbal abuse, nudit
DAAVVEE OKCUPID.COM ZOOMINGIN OKCUPID.COM, racisim, hackers, sexual harrasement, verbal abuse, nudit
help us hunt down these predators and hackers off the net! http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn our mission is to keep these predators permantley banned from all websites because once and if they get removed, somehow they...
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#220820 Review #220820 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Staten Island, New York

Cyber abuse on okcupid by ZoomingIn & Daavee

beware on okcupid.com you are not safe. when entering this domain be extremely cautious. here is what you can experience and not even know it. your privacy is not protected what so ever and it should be. there should be a law against such acts. look out for this user by the name zoomingin at http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn this predator enjoys taking other users photos and degrading them to her pleasure look here to see some of the filth http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/stay-away-from-user-zoomingin-on.html beware of her journals as well http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn/journal also another user by the name daavee at http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee he places nude of females on the site...these poor females have no idea that they are being abused on the internet...look here and be cautious before viewing it contains sexual content http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee/journal/236301****80444****/EWW%21%21%21%21%21%21%21-%28Don%27t-look-if-you%27ve-just-eaten http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/daavvees-***-naked-women-on-okcupid.html also here is a women's plea to okcupid to remove daavee off the site that he is sexual harrassing her but as you can see the company does nothing http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/women-by-name-robin-reports-sexual.html how can this be allowed on a dating site???...the company should be responsible and also the users that are abusing the site should be held responsible as well...this is horrible and what if children viewed this being that it's a public site???...something should have been done a long time ago...i fear that it takes for something tragic to happen to a female or someone and make the news and gravesite to take action when these are the warning signs because you just don't know who is behind the screen today and who is out there... www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn www.okcupid.com/profile/daavee
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#250159

josie's photo!

crazycyber stalkers! still using her photo!

#250156

Who's photo?

#250143

not to mention, but your photo is still up there! sounds shaddy!

okcupid is sounding more ***

#250132

Maybe it's one of okcupid's administrators doing this to certain profiles. I viewed the indecent behavior on these purposely made profiles before they were shut down.

#250110

plus they deleted they profiles now because they are guilty! they are just bashing you because they are guilty! crazy cyberstalkers!

#250103

oh god they are back and still stalking you! look at the comments they leave you!

why can't they leave you alone? what crazy cyberstalkers!

#249957

Um, if youre under 18 you dont belong on that site anyway - it clearly states upon signing up that you MUST be 18 or older.

#249819

It's not just that you have no life. You are seriously disturbed, mentally. I hope you seek help.

#249804

WOW. You have no life, do you?

And who is cyber abusing whom??? GROW UP.

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#220286 Review #220286 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Staten Island, New York

Okcupid scam won't return calls or emails cyberbulling me

on january 26, 2011 on okcupid.com i was surprised with an email stating my photos were reported and deleted off the site...i couldn't understand why i followed proper guidelines...to my next surprise i received an email from a mature woman stating, "my profile is featured in another okcupid users journal by the name DAAVEE, titled "And the psycho profile award goes to"...once you clicked on that title, it would direct you to my personal page...i was engraged and afraid...i begged the user to please remove me from his page that he had no buisness with me...instead i had to deal with comments full of profanity, abuse, and threats...along with the my stolen photo being exposed and exploited for no reason...he made a link by the name "this is a mustache" in the journal and when you click this link my photo appears...now my photo was being harassed as well...i scan through the journal to discover he is also degrading other female users photos as well...i decided to report him and contact okcupid staff about this menace numerous times....my sister who was also a witness contacted okcupid via email and phone with me...okcupid owners and staff are ignoring me and the situation...i take it further by contacting the local news, cable, dell, DA office, authorities...and my only solution is to take this to the NYPD detective squad and file a complaint and then go back to the DA office with it...also threats were said such as, "blood on the streets" and "i stole josie's ip address" " i have mpgs of josiemetal eating monkey *** omlets" i wasinformed that the journal and my photo would be reposted and reapper later on...i am fearful of going through this torture again...why should i have to be degraded,stressed out, fearful, threatened, and putup with sleepless nightstrying to take care of this harrassment when okcupid should have taken care of it from day one...instead his page is still up and running while mine the innocent one is deleted and blocked...it makes me believe it could be ockupid staff sabotaging me...i wonder how many innocent women and victims this has happend to and they could not voice it...how would you feel if this was your wife, mother, sisters, daughter, or girlfriend going throught this harassment... it is not fair and unjust... isn't there a law on privacy wether it is on the internet or not, why should i have to be exposed and harassed for no reason...this *** should not have my photo and play with it, or anyone else's...i have documented and filmed all evidence of these horrifying events...i have started a video on youtube of this discoveryand more shall come...i have made a blooger and will post the links at the end of this report...no woman or person should have to be degraded and harassed on any site along with their identity in their photo beingexposed...please help me take care of this parasite and his followers because their are a menace to the internet...no one is safe while they are out there and getting away with this harmful cyberbullying needs to be put to an end immediatley...okcupid.com should be taken off the internetbecause they do not care for the users, there is no hotline to call when issues arise and emailing them is an obstacle especially that this is considered anemergency...i also sent them urgent messages and went further by contacting them on facebook...why aren't any of them resloving this matter???...since this incident my friends are fearful of this website and have since deleted their accounts because they do not want their photos abused by whomever these hackers are...i am also blocked from the site and can not access it when i need to because i have another account that i desperatly need to delete before Daavee and his parasites find this one as well and bully it...i don't understand how okcupid staff can block mefrom their dating website but not remove a user that is a possible threat to women....women have to be cautious on this dating website with this stalker on the prawl because they can be harmed by him and not know it...how can a dating website endanger the lives of women and justify this user's actions...thank you for your time and i hope you can help me resolve this dreadful issue... http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/01/where-davie-creep-exposes-my-innocent.html http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/01/part-1-daavee-his-infamous-followers-on.html http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRYM4zSVQXI&feature=feedu
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think you should go to the cops! okcupid is not helping, and when i report daavee, nothing happens!

he is still on the website! you should becareful too! i'm so sorry i told you to join okcupid!

:sigh :? :cry

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Staten Island, New York
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