I cannot log in. I cannot set up a new account.

Noone answers my emails. I am a professional female who had been on the site maybe two weeks. started using in and emailing contacts. When I received some emails from men, went to reply and could not get into my account.

They have absolutely no customer service. There was no reason at all to delete my account. I cannot imagine a company who does that with no reason and no response. so poor.

This site was good to start with and I thought the contacts were more qualified than some of the other sites. After reading blogs I heard that another member sees you are an attractive woman and can flag your account to get you off their website. Are you Serious. That is the poorest control of a dating site I have ever heard.

Shameful. The fact that I have probably written 5 emails discussing my situation and gotten not one response at all from okcupid is pathetic.

When I was going to pay for their advance services I would never do that now. I think I will also contact the better business bureau and do a yelp review and yes a youtube video would be appropriate as well as twitter and facebook to let people know of their shoddy business practices.

Location: Seattle, Washington

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Tired of their rules I stopped using OKcupid and joined Seek4Her.com - things are easier and more understandable there, women are more responsive and easy-going, it doesn't take long to understand what kind of person you are chatting with and to see if have a certain chemistry.

@Robert Kavendish

Stop spamming your Ukrainian dating website all over the place, Thank You


Most online dating sites are outright scams. They send you fake winks or likes and you cannot see who likes you until you upgrade to a pay account, Once you pay the likes disappear.

These websites are also loaded with spammers, scammers, and hackers. A lot of time they attempt to get you to chat on things like google hangouts or some other external chat application.

These websites make hundreds of millions of dollars just from advertisement alone, they delete the accounts on purpose even deleting people that paid. Stay Away It's just a giant scam.


I was ready to propose to a lady, then they locked me out of my paid account.


I would say to try to contact customer service. You can express your annoyance there and see what happens.

I was briefly blocked. It was annoying. I wrote to them expressing my annoyance.

They fixed the account. No issues since.


OKCUPID is racist against WHITE people. If you are a White female or a White male, and you simply say that you will not date blacks as it is your right and your choice not to do this, they WILL delete you for standing up for your heritage.

OKCupid is a jewish, cultural-marxist, anti-white, online SCAM site that lures users and tries to charge them for an "A-LIST" to see mostly fake "likes" from automated profiles and people who actually work for the site who randomly reply to strangers but never meet with them to make it seem real. Less than 20% of the people on OKCupid are real, and most of them are not matched. If they say anything OKcupid does not like, their profiles will be deleted, and if they are a paying customer, they will have their money taken and not be refunded. There needs to be a class action lawsuit against OKcupid for what they have done and are doing.

I tested this theory first-hand, with a real picture of myself and the most basic welcome possible, and my account was deleted when I changed one small part of my about section to simply say: "I do not date outside of my race. If you do, that is up to you, but that is not my cup of tea" --> THAT is what they suspended my account for! THAT is what you call CIVIL RIGHTS VIOLATION LAWSUIT.

You are not alone, girl. There are MANY men AND women who are defrauded and deleted by OKcupid!


I have seen female profiles state that they will not date black men or that they only date black men. The best way to avoid this problem is DO NOT create a profile stating all of your Dont's or Wont's or things you dislike.

Simply ignore the people contacting you that do not fit your likes or wants.

Easy! They own the website they can pretty much do whatever they want and just change the "Terms of Service" whenever they want.


*** this scamming site only there to take your $$$ get rich quick scam


The same company that owns OkCupid also owns plenty of fish. People on plenty of fish are having major problems getting their accounts deleted for no reason at all sometimes minutes after the profile gets created.

Same company same nonsense of deleting accounts. This company IAC corporation is out to make $$$ and that's all they care about.


Yep. Same.


Same thing here


I have been using OKCupid for over a year and sent nothing nothing bad to anyone on there. I think they are going through a virus right now. I created an account then immediately logged out and logged back in and my account was suspended due to violations of terms of service


To all the men being suspended from the site. It's not just you.

I'm a woman and had my account deleted for no reason. I'm not here to brag or anything but reading the reviews, people complained about the high volume of unattractive, overweight females or robots. I'm a skinny young woman that many people found very attractive. I had a very genuine account but none the less, many men accused me of being a catfish regardless of it being linked to my social media accounts.

The social media accounts were made in like 2011 so it's pretty obvious that it's a real profile lol So I already knew the terms of service, I was well aware. I didn't break any rules, however, my account got suspended anyways. I reread the rules and am assured that I didn't break a single one and I didn't. So unfair.

So disappointing.

I've had the account for 4+ years. Damn


The same thing happened to me yesterday. I had literally JUST set up an account, I hadn't even had the chance to match with anyone and I was working on filling out information.

Today I tried to get on and it said "your account has been suspended for violating our rules" or something and its like???

How? By answering a few multiple choice questions?


Suspended my account without any warning! What a violation!

These internet companies are way too big and powerful. Apparently this company has an automated system that when someone complains, as many people will when they've been rejected, it automatically suspends the account of the person against whom the complaint was lodged. Then a small team of people use their subjective opinions to determine if the suspension is warranted. In the meantime, no notice or communication is provided to the person against whom the complaint was lodged and no offers to refund their money are made.

So there is no reason for the suspension provided, no opportunity to learn from potential mistakes, and who knows whether there ever actually was a policy violation! Likewise, who knows what they wind up doing with all your private information that you trusted them with in your hopes to find that special someone. At least we know what they're doing with all the stolen money!

Yikes! Get out while you can!!!


OKC are total hypocrits. They ask all these sexually explicit conversations, but God forbid you talk about sex with a consenting adult and you get banned.

THEY ARE INVITING FEMALE USERS to be MODS...so they can ban whoever the *** they want.

That's not cool. I know, because one I had talked to got invited/chosen.

@Heywood J

They invited me to be one and deleted my account suddenly months later


Interesting. I was recently invited to be a mod.

They killed my account too with no reason. Only issue is they now own me money since they took $19.95 from my account and never tendered service.

@Heywood J

Making certain types of females moderator is always a mistake. In fact certain people male or female should not be moderator because they cannot separate their personal feelings from the job


Same thing to me! deleted for no reason. Can't re-sign up anymore either, tried new email etc..., what a joke, they're kicking off quality members.

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