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Ravish Mattoo Alias name Zephyr Me Or way2Zephyr@***.com

Caste Kashmiri pandit from j&k (Srinagar)

Age 35yrs D O B 18/07/1983 24/11/1983 either of one

Height 6.2 feet

Marital Status Separated ...but depends on situation it changes

Works as Manager at Gemalto Noida

Presently at Gemalto Canada Safenet. Ottawa ON K2E 7M6 Canada

Contact no +91 8800* 77611

Canada +1 (61*) 221-****

Home address

Shipra Suncity, near CISF CAMP INDIRAPURAM ,Ghaziabad, Uttar Pradesh 201014 India

Hobbies Watching almost every movie and listening music

Favorite food chola bathura ,gobi,icecreams butterscotch&American Nuts

U LIVE IN HOPES AND THE HOPES TAKES OVER

He says heโ€™s single, honest and looking for love.he say's he is like a open book..curious to know everything about your life but never share about his own and if he shares anything that all is just perfect enough to make you believe that its true..

โ€œ I was an easy target.โ€

โ€œI donโ€™t really know who I was talking to because I discovered he was married . The emotional abuse is devastating.โ€

Not everybody on the Internet is whom they seem to be.

I meet Mr Ravish Mattoo Online on a site Ok Cupid 3yrs back in 2015 were his status was SEPARATED we talked for about a month or so but things seemed so skeptical his behavior always hiding something that I preferred not to continue talking ... But suddenly few months back 2018 aug.. I got a message on whatsapp โ€œhey how are youโ€ itโ€™s has been 3yrs now he remembered me why is he messaging me out of the blue .. then I thought it been years now people change donโ€™t know what circumstances he had 3years back .. at least I must reply ..he was good to talk to beiside all skeptical behavior .. so I replied.. We started chatting on Whatsapp everything thing was going great entire day chitchatting were we both were very happy that after this long we talking again .. he introduced himself as Single were I had a blurred memory of something SEPARATED.. on asking about the marital status he told me that โ€œhe had a school time affair with a girl from J&K .. and after school his dad (who is now a EX SDE from BSNL)got transferred to Noida (UP).. and to keep the relationship alive he use to make frequent visit to j&k to meet the girl .. then the girl for further studies moved to Gwalior and then to Pune ..where he was always connected by webcam chats and talks and frequent visit to place she was studying at .. and one day when she was in Pune and Ravish went to meet the girl she told she is seeing someone else ..which broke his heart and left him in ocean of pain.. the long relationship of 11years is gone.. and for what reason he put so much effort .. and she left him without any reason ...(Now she is married and settled in Australia)โ€.. this incident make his life upside down and he call himself as SEPARATED for this reason .. and itโ€™s been 5 years now he never got into any relationship and preferred staying SINGLE .Presently as 2018 Ravish Mattoo is in CANADA Ottawa .. and the reason Ravish moved to Ottawa was because the time we left talking in 2015 he felt so bad ..That when the company offered him the opportunity to work in Ottawa Canada he just grabbed it and move away .. the story made me feel bad for him as well made me thought โ€œI never realized that I was so important to him .. he had a bad relationship past and I was so rude and ignorant in the past .. let this be a new startโ€ after few chats we started with voice calls which soon was in video calls for hours and hours long .. sharing Selfies ..Voice calls or Whatsapp chat was all day long .Ottawa time going to the office morning 9 Oโ€™clock a video call .. this was fixed rest there were no number and time frame for our talks ... everything was amazing .. we started thinking that at this age he is 35 I am 34 we can seriously look for a future together get married have family.. we love each otherโ€™s company .. we both are Single we can have a great future together ...but something was not right Ravish never use to answer my calls in front of his friends on weekends he seemed some sort of mystery .. whereas during office days and hours he gave me ample of time but why is he keeping this so secretive.. why is he not sharing with his friends .. he is making futuristic plans he is planing coming to my place spending time together meeting parents . Some grand destination wedding plans ..kids .. fantasies .. sex .. he is so much into this relationship so serious then why is he hiding from his friends ... why is he a total different person the way he behaves everything made me very suspicious..never sharing name of his friends .. the first fight we had was on 13th sep when Ravish was gone DC to help his extended family in shifting to Chicago.. and no calls hardly any messages .. is he so busy he donโ€™t have 5min for me .. and then this sort of behavior was often and skeptical which was the reason for fight on every weekend .. and suddenly he wanted to over this relationship he thought it was not worth .. blaming everything on me my behavior..I was heart broken thinking what I did wrong .. was I expecting too much .. was I too demanding ... I spoiled everything .. I hurted him ... how can I be so childish .. he needed his personal space and time I was just over demanding..he had a bad past a 11year relationship which didnโ€™t work .. might be he want to be sure before disclosing our relationship in front of other ..

BUT then I saw him not on indian whatapp number but on the ottawa whatsapp number the entire time chitchatting with some one else the way it was with me..(Ravish was too tired talking to me but busy managing being online entire day) I thought let me explore things instead of blaming myself and ease my pain .. the facts which came were shocking and dirty dirty truth which was never expected .. MR Ravish Mattoo was married from last 7-8 years donโ€™t know separated or divorced or whatsoever ..his society were his parents live in not much of information about Ravishโ€™s wife or past was known ...he framed me but for what reason for fun Casual hook up for some {{Redacted}} on video calls, sharing naked pics ..which he was not able to get from me and lost his interest soon and moved for a new target .. good I got saved that was the only reason he never talked in front of his friend living a double life .. when he ended things with me he said I know you are a good person at heart donโ€™t let insecurities impact your life .. be positive live life happily .. take care baby ... and the day I messaged him telling his truth he was not ashamed for what he did .. he blamed me again Saying โ€œAre you trying to defame my family and eventually kill them?โ€œ And when I asked for what reason he did this breaking my trust ,love hopes , breaking me .. he so emotionlessly answered โ€œI never wanted to on purpose. I have never wanted to harm you in any way. And I am not sure if you realize this or not.โ€ Goshhh .. I really donโ€™t know how Ravish plans to use my Selfies ...but thatโ€™s all what he is doing as a source of entertainment fun in his life I am just one among many girls who must have been a victim of this narcissist, Self-centered, male chauvinist, Sex addict ,charming ,knowledgeable, expert lair..who will slowly take your heart away and ask you to show yourself on video calls send dirty pictures ...{{Redacted}} ....

Location: Udaipur, Rajasthan

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So I met this guy as well for marriage purpose. We went out a couple of times later to discovered that he is already married to someone name jyoti Batra mattoo.

But in my case he cheated me of money and few expensive gifts like ( camera, mobile phone).

I wanted to file an FIR but my parents asked me not too and let it go as a bad experience. I am very sure that people like him can not live a peaceful and happy life and I hope karna gets this *** and his family.

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